New Transformational Guide Reveals…
How To Restore Your Family and Break Free from Generational Pain Without Living Behind Walls of Anger and Emotional Detachment
It’s time to rebuild the home that has been torn apart by the unseen battles within.
Introducing: “Restoring the Family” – a scripture-based guide designed to help Active Duty Service Members, veterans and their families experience deep emotional healing and restoration. Learn how to break free from the hardened heart caused by war trauma, reconnect with loved ones, and finally walk in the freedom of true, lasting peace.
Is your family struggling to find peace and healing from the lingering effects of military trauma? The hidden wounds of military service (and war) affect more than just the service member—they impact every relationship, creating cycles of pain, isolation, and broken connections.
Why Choose “Restoring the Family”?
Biblically-Based Healing Process: Rooted in powerful scriptural insights, Restoring the Family offers a faith-centered approach to breaking free from the cycles of trauma, anger, and detachment caused by military service.
Addressing the Hidden Wounds: This guide tackles the emotional and spiritual impacts of war trauma and military culture on both service members and their families, focusing on healing the stony heart and restoring genuine relationships.
Practical, Step-by-Step Guidance: Includes clear, actionable steps and personal prayers for healing and restoration. From overcoming defensiveness to rebuilding trust, every chapter is filled with tools for personal and family renewal.
Family Restoration Focus: Learn how to restore love and connection with your family by breaking down emotional barriers and dealing with the unresolved pain carried from the battlefield into the home.
Breaking Generational Patterns: Gain the knowledge to identify and break the generational effects of war trauma, creating a legacy of peace, healing, and spiritual wholeness for future generations.
Overcoming Military Mindsets: Discover how to move beyond military conditioning that fosters emotional disconnection and detachment, allowing you to re-enter family life fully present and engaged.
Community and Accountability: Encourages participation in “Freedom Groups” for accountability and support throughout the healing process, creating a safe space for veterans and families to walk through restoration together.
Hope for Lasting Change: Backed by real-life testimonies, Restoring the Family provides hope, encouragement, and proof that no heart is too hardened, and no family is too broken to experience true transformation.
What You Will Learn in “Restoring the Family”
💡Identify and Heal the Stony Heart: Discover how emotional walls are formed through military trauma and harsh life experiences, and learn to replace a hardened heart with a heart of flesh.
🧱 Break Down Walls of Defensiveness: Understand how defensiveness develops and how it blocks genuine communication. Gain tools to disarm automatic defensive responses and open the door to authentic relationships.
🗣️ Overcome the “Don’t Talk” Rule: Break free from the silence that has kept pain buried for years. Learn how to create a safe space to talk about what’s really going on and foster deeper family connections.
💔 Process and Release Hidden Anger: Uncover buried pain and resentment that have been bottled up for years. Walk through a step-by-step process to release anger in a healthy, healing way.
🔗 Restore Trust and Intimacy: Rebuild trust that has been shattered by trauma and emotional disconnection. Learn to communicate honestly, respect boundaries, and create an environment of safety in your home.
🧘 Reconnect Emotionally with Your Family: Learn how to break free from detachment and re-engage emotionally, becoming fully present and connected with your spouse and children.
👨👩👧👦 Heal Generational Wounds: Identify how war trauma and military culture affect not just the veteran, but the entire family, and gain practical steps to stop the cycle and create a legacy of healing.
🌟 Experience Spiritual Renewal: Engage in a spiritual journey to invite God’s healing power into every area of your life, bringing restoration, peace, and renewed purpose.
Here is What You Get
Immediate Download
10 Lesson e-Course
10 Lesson Video Training
Weekly “Freedom Group” Zoom mtg
Victory Celebration/Graduation
Here is The Course Outline…
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Lesson #1 :
Hardened Heart – Stony Heart
This lesson addresses how the emotional traumas of military service can harden a veteran’s heart, creating emotional walls that disconnect them from their loved ones. It emphasizes the biblical concept of a “stony heart” and explores the gradual process of emotional hardening caused by pain and unresolved anger. With testimonies and reflective exercises, the lesson guides veterans in recognizing their hardened hearts and taking steps toward receiving a “heart of flesh” that allows genuine connection with their families once again.
Lesson #2 :
Emotional Disconnection
Emotional disconnection is a common result of prolonged exposure to trauma and military culture. This lesson explains how military training and experiences can cause veterans to become detached, unable to feel or express their emotions openly. The lesson aims to help veterans understand this disconnection, showing the importance of acknowledging their own emotional needs and reconnecting with their family members. Through prayer and intentional communication, they can begin to break down the barriers of isolation that have formed over time.
Lesson #3 :
Re-Connecting for Healing
In this lesson, veterans are encouraged to rebuild emotional connections that were lost due to service-related trauma. It focuses on transforming the home environment into a safe and nurturing space where open communication can thrive. This lesson provides practical guidance on overcoming the lingering effects of harsh military communication styles and the barriers they create. Through shared activities, veterans and their families can begin the journey of emotional healing and deeper connection.
Lesson #4 :
Detachment
This lesson delves into the phenomenon of detachment, a survival mechanism that is essential in military service but damaging in family life. It explains how service members are trained to detach from their emotions to remain mission-focused, often leading to emotional distance from their families. The lesson highlights the harmful cycle of detachment and loneliness, providing strategies for veterans to become more present and engaged with their loved ones, thus breaking the pattern of emotional isolation.
Lesson #5 :
Performance Orientation
Performance orientation occurs when a veteran’s sense of worth is tied to their ability to perform and achieve. This lesson reveals how military culture, which prioritizes high performance and discipline, can create a home environment that feels more like a mission than a family. The focus is on replacing this mindset with a new one rooted in grace and acceptance, so that family members can build genuine, loving relationships without the constant pressure to excel and prove themselves.
Lesson #6 :
Defilement
Defilement is the contamination of the soul resulting from war trauma and bitterness. This lesson outlines how the bitterness and harshness of war impact veterans, leading to toxic emotional and spiritual conditions that affect the entire family. The lesson uses the metaphor of a polluted water source to illustrate how unresolved anger and bitterness can taint communication and relationships. Through cleansing prayers and scripture, veterans are guided to address these deep-rooted issues and restore purity in their interactions.
Lesson #7 :
Healing for the Marriage
Marriage is deeply affected when one or both spouses have been shaped by military culture. This lesson highlights the need for creating a “Safe Place” within the marriage, where open and loving communication can flourish. It addresses how military values like performance and control can lead to a breakdown of trust. With practical steps for improving communication and establishing a foundation of mutual respect, this lesson offers a pathway to healing and strengthening the marital relationship.
Lesson #8 :
Healing for the Spouse
Spouses of service members often experience a unique set of emotional struggles, especially during the re-entry period after deployments. This lesson explores the challenges of reconnecting emotionally and the unmet needs that may arise for both partners. It provides guidance for spouses to support their service member’s healing process while also addressing their own needs. By fostering empathy and understanding, couples can rebuild a marriage that supports both partners’ emotional health and spiritual growth.
Lesson #9 :
Unmet Emotional Needs
Unmet emotional needs from childhood or military service can lead to unhealthy behaviors and emotional outbursts. This lesson focuses on recognizing and addressing these unmet needs, which often manifest as anger, isolation, or dependency on others for validation. It encourages veterans and their families to identify and work through these needs, replacing negative patterns with healthy, life-giving relationships that foster mutual support and understanding.
Lesson #10 :
Boundaries for Healing
Setting healthy boundaries is essential for maintaining emotional and relational health. This final lesson explains how to establish clear boundaries to protect the family environment from conflict and chaos. It encourages veterans and their families to define acceptable behavior and communicate their needs respectfully. By creating a safe space for open discussion and mutual respect, families can cultivate an atmosphere where true healing can take root and flourish.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the main objective of the "Restoring the Family" course?
The main objective of the Restoring the Family course is to help military veterans and their families heal from the emotional and spiritual effects of war trauma and military culture. The course aims to restore family relationships by addressing issues such as emotional disconnection, hardened hearts, detachment, and unhealthy communication patterns, while providing biblical guidance and practical strategies for healing and reconciliation.
Who is the course designed for?
The course is designed for military veterans, active service members, and their families who have been affected by war trauma, military culture, or relational issues stemming from service time. It is also intended for spouses and children of veterans who seek to understand and overcome the impact of military-related emotional and spiritual challenges within their family dynamics.
What topics are covered in the course?
The course covers topics such as emotional disconnection, hardened hearts, detachment, defilement, performance orientation, communication in marriage, healing for spouses, unmet emotional needs, and setting healthy boundaries. Each lesson addresses a specific issue with a focus on providing biblical insights, personal testimonies, and practical steps for overcoming these challenges.
How is the course structured?
The course is structured into 10 lessons, each focusing on a distinct area of emotional and relational healing. Each lesson includes teaching material, reflective exercises, personal testimonies, and guided prayers. The structure is designed to lead participants through a step-by-step healing process, allowing them to gradually identify and address the underlying issues that affect their family relationships.
What are some other resources that are provided during the course?
Additional resources provided during the course include guided prayers, scripture references, personal testimonies, and practical exercises for self-reflection. The course may also recommend joining support groups, such as Freedom Groups, and using biblical healing tools for overcoming specific emotional and spiritual struggles.
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What’s Included:
- Lesson Book: Dive deep into the lessons from “Restoring the Family,” authored by Denise Boggs, with practical guidance and spiritual insights.
- 10 Weeks of Video Trainings: Engage with powerful video sessions that complement the lesson book, providing step-by-step healing processes.
- Weekly Zoom Meetings “Freedom Groups”: Connect with a supportive community of veterans in weekly Zoom meetings, where you can share your journey and receive encouragement.
- Graduation Dinner/Event: Celebrate your transformation and new-found freedom with a special graduation dinner/event, honoring your journey and achievements.